The Hands Resist Him

The ‘Hands’ Series

The story of the eBay Haunted Painting, from the artist’s perspective

One day in 2000, William Stoneham received a curious email asking if he knew The Hands Resist Him. He hadn’t heard that title in 25 years but knew immediately what the email referred to. Stoneham replied ‘yes’ and he soon heard the story of the eBay auction from the auction winner, Kim Smith, owner of Perception Gallery in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Stoneham and Smith, who still owns the painting, have maintained a friendly communication over the years.

The story of the haunted painting auction wove itself into the early social media world and that is where it has lived and grown for nearly 25 years. Stoneham has been interviewed many times by radio broadcasters, print media, podcast interviewers, and many personal contacts through his Stoneham Studios website. A few of the best are linked in the Media attention section on this page. Wikipedia maintains a consistently accurate account.

Stoneham’s initial, and most repeated response to interviewers:

Where to begin? Well I've always had a connection to what Carl Jung called the collective unconscious. I think we all do. Artists - especially visual artists - are barometers for the currents that run through this collective. Dreams are a common experience people may have with this. Anyway, my own experience is a sensitivity to place – physical, geographical place. There are memories, echoes of all the life within a place. Maybe it's what's called channeling. When I painted the Hands Resist Him in 1972, I used an old photo of myself at age five in a Chicago apartment. The hands are the 'other lives.' The glass door, that thin veil between waking and dreaming. The girl/doll is the imagined companion, or guide through this realm.

Both the owner of the Gallery where 'Hands' was displayed and the Los Angeles Times art critic who reviewed my show were dead within a year of the show.  I'm sure it was coincidence, but some of what I paint resonates in other people, opening the inner door. Or basement.  By the way, I still have no idea what happened to the character actor who bought the painting at the show (editor note: it was John Marley, who died in 1984), or how it ended up abandoned in a building, though I could speculate.    - Bill

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  • (Inspiration for the painting’s title, this poem was written in acknowledgement of Stoneham’s having been an orphan.)

    He is of the seeing visions
    His strokes reveal them
    In a rush- of color, of madness
    of mystics

    And his head is the highest center
    It must confront its enemy,
    The hands - resist him - like the secret of his birth.

    His presence is the sanctum heartbeat
    Felt in darkness and in passion
    Its sound, the sole gift to that silence.

    - R. Ponseti, 1971

  • If you wish to use ‘The Hands Resist Him’ image for reprint or digital media purposes, you must recieve written permission from Darren K. O’Neill, the copyright owner.

  • The story is shared all over the Web these days; search on ‘eBay haunted painting’ for a good start.

    Here are a few of our favorites:

    Empty Frames podcast (2/2020)

    Crawlspace podcast (12/2019)

    The Daily Dot story, by Fernando Alfonso III (well written and accurate)

    Wikipedia

    BBC story

  • A creepy story based on the ‘Hands’ legend, by D.K. O'Neill? We like it!

    Get it on Amazon